Have you ever met someone and over time their attitude changed your opinion of them, be it for better or worse? Well, just like there are attitudes that men dislike, there are also certain ones they love. In this video I’m going to share with you seven attitudes you can adopt to drive men wild!
One of the most unattractive things a woman can do is to sulk or pout about what she doesn’t have in her life. Instead of behaving in this way, be grateful for what you do have in your life and learn to appreciate the little things, like a sunny morning, good health, or a nice home-cooked meal.
A helpful tip to get you started is to make a point to not compare yourself to others, and instead bask in the good you do have going on in your world. Once you master this you’ll improve your mood and draw others to you… unlike if you are constantly complaining or down on life.
Best of all, because men are attracted to women who are positive and have a pleasant outlook on life, when your attitude reflect this he’ll want to spend even more time with you.
Being able to turn an ordinary situation into something extraordinary, or finding the fun in the mundane is something men admire. Rather than focus on just the grand events in your life, learn how to make the little moments memorable, too!
When you’re sat in your car at a red light, or watching your weekly sitcom, turn these simple things into something fun for the two of you. A good way to do this is to make a game out of the situation, and use your environment to set the rules.
For example, if you’re in your car then turn on the radio and play some music bingo. Or, if you’re stuck in a waiting room, play a sneaky game of making up life stories for those around you. These ideas are sure to make him laugh and he will admire your ability to make even the dull moments enjoyable.
Being the kind of woman who stands up for what she believes in is extremely sexy. That said, there is a fine line between having an educated opinion and being a know-it-all.
If you’re looking to attract men with your big, sexy brain, then it’s important that you have convictions and be yourself.
Being the type of woman who is bold in her beliefs will not only show him that you’re independent, but it will also intrigue him, make him listen to what you have to say, and show him that you don’t rely on others to form your opinions and make your decisions.
When it comes to being bold, don’t worry about taboos. Be willing to task risks, dream big, set goals for yourself and kill them. This will show him that you have a life outside of any relationship and that you don’t need a man to complete you.
Men love it when women flirt with them. It strokes their ego and makes them feel desirable. If you’re looking to entice a man this way, then you’ll want to up your flirting game.
As much as they may not admit it men love having a woman in their corner. If you can support your guy, cheer him on and encourage him to pursue his goals, you’ll have him enamoured.
Even if you think that his dreams are ridiculous or unrealistic, still encourage him to dream big and let him know that you’re his biggest fan.
Showing him an unwavering support will make him not only more comfortable sharing his thoughts with you, but he’ll feel like the luckiest man alive to have a woman who believes in him.
Ever since they were little boys racing on their bicycles through the neighbourhood, men have been competitive. In fact, many guys shine their brightest when being challenged.
If you can introduce a bit of competitiveness in your relationship, or challenge in him a fun, playful way, he’ll appreciate it and look forward to spending time with you.
So many women don’t give this to their men, and then they wonder why their guy wants to spend so much time with the boys. If you’re looking to keep him hooked, then spice things up and give him the thrill he’s looking for.
Love big and don’t let the fear of getting hurt stop you. This kind of attitude radiates confidence and passion.
To show men that you’re the caring type make a point to look out for those around you. Offer a listening ear when someone needs it, and be the reason others smile.
Strive to be the best version of yourself possible, and go the extra little bit to show others that you care.
This type of attitude is not only motherly, but it’s also admirable and will make him want to be a better person, too!