The #1 Flirting Mistake Women Make

Are you tired of getting attention from guys you don’t want, but going unnoticed from the guys you do? If so, it’s because you’re making a massive flirting mistake!

Picture this…

You’re crushing on a guy at work. Anytime you’re in the same room you can feel your cheeks get rosy and your mind scrambles, searching for words to say. When you talk to him you get tongue tied, and you walk away feeling foolish.

Or maybe you’re smoother than that, and you are able to hold a bit of a conversation with him. Still, you’re on edge and desperate to make him fall for you.

Let’s say you have another male coworker. You consider him a pal and think he’s cute, but you’re not into him romantically. Still, you joke and laugh together, and the outside world may even think there’s a “spark” between the two of you. For whatever reason, you’re not into him.

Why is it that you can get the guy you’re not into interested in you, but not the man who you do have feeling for?

The truth is it’s because you’re not flirting properly.

Since a big part of flirting is showing your playful, charismatic side, when you let your nerves get the best of you it’s impossible to act this way.

This means that instead of showing the man you’re into your best self, you’re coming across as uncomfortable and awkward. You’re letting your emotions stop you from being flirtatious, and that’s a huge mistake!

Stop worrying about whether or not he’s flirting or if he likes you and instead, remember this…

It’s all about mindset

To get over this, you need to adopt the right mindset. This means you’ll need to realize three things:

  1. What a great catch you are (any guy would be lucky to have you)
  2. The value you would bring to a relationship
  3. That he should be chasing you

Of course realizing these things takes a good dose of confidence, but once you master this mindset you’ll be witty and spontaneous around the men you’re into, which will make you anything but awkward or boring.

Men will be naturally drawn to your unshakeable confidence and positivity, and they’ll be the ones flirting with you. Believe me, it’s that simple!

The #1 Flirting Mistake Women Make

About Amy North

Amy North is a women's relationship coach and best-selling author from Vancouver, Canada. Her high-acclaimed programs include "Text Chemistry" and "The Devotion System", both of which have helped thousands of women from around the world find (and keep) the man of their dreams.

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