There are plenty of good-looking, available guys out there.
You’ve seen them, but have they seen you?
It’s easy to assume that our crushes aren’t interested but it’s often that they just haven’t even noticed that we’re there.
The truth is, you could be the coolest, funniest girl ever… But if they never notice you, then it’s never going to happen.
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These tips work if you’re looking to hook a specific guy but even if you don’t, they will have more men looking your way.
They work no matter what you look like, how shy you are, or how dense your crush is. If he’s got eyes, he’ll notice you.
1. Keep Up With The Kardashians
This is about taking the extra time every morning to make yourself look and feel good. Not just on days when you know you’re going to see your crush. Make it a daily habit.
You know those days when you feel flustered, rushed and don’t have time to do your hair and makeup the way you like? You wish you were invisible.
Well then is it any wonder that guys aren’t noticing you if you’re actively trying to make yourself disappear into the wall?
Now think of the day you have your favourite outfit on and you look hot as hell. Even just sitting there alone, you radiate positivity and comfort.
With that in mind, plan ahead. If you make the time to make yourself look and feel great then you’re going to attract more guys.
This can have a huge snowball effect. The more often you look and feel your best, the higher your confidence will be even when you have a blackhead and you’re wearing sweatpants. Confidence is contagious!
2. Buddha Mindset
He may not have been a famous lover, but buddha knew all about staying in the here and now. This is the key that will make you more noticeable and approachable.
The modern world can be pretty stressful and overwhelming. When we’re out in public, whether we’re running errands or commuting, we’re often off in our own world, simply trying to get things done and get from place to place.
I often tell my clients to try to be present and slow down more in these moments. It can be as simple as looking up from your phone and examining your surroundings. Try taking a different route to work or saying hello to someone passing on the street.
I know, you’re saying “Amy, what the heck does this have to do with dating?” I promise you that it’s all connected. When we stay in our own heads we’re putting up walls between ourselves and the world.
The difference is subtle but if you practice this just a little more in your day-to-day life, it will make you more open and more connected to your surroundings. Not only will men subconsciously notice that, they’ll like the vibe you give off if you’re living in the moment instead of just passing through.
3. Notice Him First
The best defence is a good offence!
If you want a guy to notice you, one of the best things you can do is look his way.
I know a lot of people tell you to play hard to get and to ignore him, and that can work in many situations but if you’re doing it before you two have met, the right kind of guy will take that as a queue to leave you alone.
Imagine this instead.
You see a guy on the train who you think is cute. You glance his way, your eyes meet. Instead of looking away instantly and turning red, you match his gaze. Then, you smile. Then he smiles. Then you look away, still grinning.
It only takes a couple seconds but if you do it right, he’ll know to approach you. And even if he doesn’t, this is the kind of confident, self-assured mindset that will attract the guys you’re looking for.
Smiles attract men. Smiles attract everyone. It really is that simple.
Look at these two people. Who would you rather talk to?
It doesn’t matter how good you look, if you have a frown on your face, no one will want to chat you up. And they shouldn’t. Frowns are natural armor. They’re a way of telling the world, “don’t even bother.”
Smiles attract attention and make people feel good and feel good about you. Try it out.
5. Signature Scent
I don’t think I have to tell you to shower and use deodorant. But go a step further. I always recommend my clients find their signature scent. A little dab here and there is a great way to have him noticing you before he even sees you!
Smell is extremely powerful because it’s subconscious.
If you want other ways to affect his subconscious mind, you need my devotion system. It’s full of dozens of tricks that are simple to pull off but amazingly powerful in their effects.
You’ll think he drank a love potion the way he’s going to be chasing after you!
6. Make Yourself Heard
Now let’s talk about number six, sound. Sound is one of the senses that’s impossible to ignore.
So if you appeal to him on this level, he’s bound to turn his head. I don’t recommend singing alone on the train or talking to yourself on the street but there are other ways to harness this powerful sense.
Boots or high heels can create that satisfying click that will make him turn his head. Jangly earrings or jewellery will sometimes do the trick. Don’t overthink it.
Another great move is to have a conversation with a friend in his vicinity. If he hears you talking and laughing, he’ll be wondering what’s so funny.
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